"I think we should break up, but that doesnt mean we cant be together in the future!"

The problem with your first heartbreak is its so hard to get over.  Its hard to get past a time where you spent every waking second either being with them, thinking of them or imagining your life together.  The main problem starts with you love saying,"I don't think its right..." And when he could just stop there, and leave the girl (or guy) with a clean break.  He has to go and ruin that with a,"right now." The first thing we think is okay, so maybe someday we can be together then?! Giving us who would jump in front of a killing machine  to save their lives, the tiniest sliver of hope.
That is my situation.  I fell in love with the sweetest, mist thoughtful guy, who loves his family, and is AMAZING with kids, and he broke up with me because he didn't believe our relationship could handle the stress of a long distance relationship when he went into the navy. Except the sliver of hope has been sliced open by him more than a hundred times in the past two years he has been in the military.  He often likes to chat on the phone about times we made out, and practically reliving the time we spent together.  Now, mind you, he and I are both Christians, and believe (I believe, him...not so much anymore) in abstinence before marriage, so we never went far.  But that is besides the point.  Why is wanting to move on so hard? You should just be able to get a boyfriend and get back in the swing of things.  Not get stuck on one guy, espeshally when he has moved on more than once.  And let's all he honest here, you may have had a boyfriend since your first love, but have you really gotten over him yet? If youre being completely honest, will you ever?